Writing Sex When You’re Sexual Frustrated

I’m going a little off topic today. Normally the writing process isn’t something to post about here at the Hideaway, but I’m expanding. Anyway, onward we go.

All these sexy stories started because I felt like I needed an outlet. It’s a nice way to make a little money on the side and I do mean little. If I was doing this for a paycheck I’d have to release two or three stories a week. So, it’s a pleasant way to make a little money, explore my creative side and honestly write sexy fun. Over the course of the last few years it’s also helped my partner and I explore our sexual lives together.

Which brings us to the writing process. When sexually frustrated I just can’t focus on these steamy stories. These are fantasies and I’ve got plenty of them and can find inspiration in lots of places, but if I’m not enjoying my personal bedroom life the stories suffer.

Case in point: Tempting the Muse is a short I’m hoping to release next month. However, instead of having a strong dominate female taking what she wants from the more than willing man, I’ve got a strong dominate female threatening to go off and frolic on her own. No man needed. Normally, this could work and it might still, but it’s driving away from the carefully laid plot line of the story.

As the author I have two choices. Either let the woman go do what she has to or force the scene into what I had planned. The second choice is the problem. Forcing a sex scene or any sex is hard. If I’m not feeling sexy it’s doubtful the scene is going to feel sexy and let’s face it. It’s erotica. It has to be sexy!

Life happens. Holidays, school events, sick days, car repairs and just about anything else you can think of distracts from sexy fun time. It’s just part of life. There isn’t any fault in that. It’s not one partner that caused the issue in this case. It’s just part of life. Yeah, it was worth repeating.

For now I’m going to write what flows. That’s what feels right. 

Later, I’m going to drop some hints, try to make time available and hope my partner and I can spend that time making up for lost time. 

Making time available is the key point in this. If I can make time to write these sexy stories I can make time to have some one on one time with my partner.

And hopefully the stories will be better for it.

Stay Sexy

A New Series

I haven't been as active I as I was planning, but I have been writing! That's the most important part anyway, right?

A new erotica short is coming out this month and it's the first in a series that I've been working on. Introducing Zora in...

Lover's Embrace

Part One of the Royal Captive Stories: an erotic fantasy series

Zora, High Priestess of her father’s kingdom, struggles to fit the expectations set out for her. Fulfill traditional rites and rituals, guide the spiritual kingdom and advise her sister who will take the throne.

The betrayal of loved ones and the arrival of an ambassador from a rival kingdom gives her a chance to take charge of her own life.

Buy your copy on Amazon! Also available on KindleUnlimited!

There will be three more story parts with Zora and her twin sister, Zara, will also have a four party series coming out. Enjoy!

Details to come soon!

#TabooTuesday: Wild & Wicked

Let's do another Taboo Tuesday! Today the taboo is stranger sexiness and was pulled from Wild & Wicked, a paranormal short erotica.

Jordyn has inherited a house and finds something, or rather someone, surprising lurking around. He's sexy and exotic and the very definition of sexy dreams.



Wild & Wicked snippet:

The man flashed her just the barest smile before leaning down and blowing a hot breath across her throat. Then she heard him take in a deep breath. Just the sound set her on fire, but then he looked up at her with mischievous eyes and asked, “You smell like sex, lil Jordyn. What were you doing all alone in the hot water?”

At the moment she was wishing he’d been in the shower with her instead of her little vibrator. She could also felt an embarrassed blush spreading over her checks. “Umm. I…I…” Jordyn could hear herself stumbling over her words, but somehow staring up at him and feeling his arm holding her up, she just couldn’t gather her womanly wisdom together.

The man had her quaking like a school girl. His traveling fingers didn’t help much. Gentle finger tips trailed between the valley of her breasts and tickled at her ribs before going lower and circling around her belly button. The teasing of his nails moved lower to her hips. Jordyn closed her eyes and was only a breath away from begging for more when their decent stopped.

Suddenly his hand went flat over her hip and he lifted her back to her feet. “I don’t care anyway. Thank you for freeing me, but it’s time to leave,” he said, pulling away from her.

The feel of his arms sliding over her bare skin and away left a longing she felt deeper than any other man caused frustration she’d ever felt before. Stopping herself from giving into the urge to reach out to him, Jordyn asked, “Wait. Who are you?”

He straightened his silky rode and smiled again. Reaching one elegant hand out, he touched her check and answered, “Call me Yuuki.” The smooth touch of his fingers rubbing against her made her eyes heavy, but she was able to smile weakly back at him before he continued, “Sleep now, sweet Jordyn.”

And so she slept.

Hope you liked this tease as much as Jordyn did! If you'd like to read more about Jordyn and her sexy fox demon, Yuuki you can find Wild & Wicked on Amazon.

Jordyn is at a deciding moment in her life. After finding her boyfriend cheating on her, losing her job and her apartment, she discovered a long lost uncle left her his house in his will. Along with the house she's going to find the first steps into her new life.

And after catching the attention of a foxy shapeshifter, she'll get all the help she could beg for.

Buy it HERE




Stay Sexy!